Sorry Guys - But I am leaving

[Inix]

I wont say I am happy about this - because I am not - after a lot of contemplation I have come to the conclusion that really is not the kin for me - Its not the kin I formed and the outlook of some of some does not mirror mine. I have not left to join another kin - I am solo - I wish you all the best for the future and if my old friends and the friends that I have made here wish to add me to their friends list I am always around.

Inix

[Curugane]

Sorry to hear that Inix, but as far as i see it, you are always welcome back to us if you feel for it. Well, its not a farewell, its only "We´ll see you again for sure". I wish you luck and fun in your gaming.

Curu

[Aewulf]

Ah Inix, I'm sorry to hear that... However, I think I added you to my friend's list ages ago, and feel free to speak with me whenever you want! Cya in Middle Earth m8...

[Demonjay]

wel what shall i say ...
i dont get u but it must be me m8
1 min you are like every thing is cool an the next your wining...
we helped , were there for you and een showed you the ropes in the raids,hope you had a great time with us

but if you feel the need to leave then by all means do so
i wish you the best out there
was a pleasure to have met u inix,take care

[El Guildo]

all the best mate.
if you ever want a naked picture of me, just ask, i have loads, some with just me in a firemans helmet.
seriously though have fun buddy

[Demonjay]

i found something i cant understand it ...

when you left all you could say in tell to fearme and pudzy was

Inix: If peeps dont help each other in kin - well - sorry my rule was help always - Im d**n sorry I Took the time out - maybe the kin would have survived

are you revering to shadowmasters
tbh i can see you as the head man there you claim to be the founder but for me flower is the head man ,LEADER
think you talking out of your ass but ok

so you left because you dint get help ??
did you really left because of that!
omg all the help we gave and you say that d**n man i felt i was babysitting you some times doing rifts with you like 2 hours extra because you couldnt walk a straight line or see what you were doing

and then i find this on UK forum



not much left.....there was not much left of DT ??
spreading lies now to
i really hope your not talking bad about us behind our backs that would be very low man
im sry you dint feel you belonged here and dint feel you got help at sometimes....
but dont start spreading out crap ok
hope you find peace,loads of fun in game and a group were you feel at home inix
remember enjoy the game ok thats what its all about its just a game

[Lilandrael]

Demon why is it that when every time somebody leaves the Kinship/Clan you drag it out as if its the end of the world. I thought this thread was closed and finished after gareth's post, I thought everyone had said their piece, but now this post. Why can't you let things be.

I'm sorry but i've sat back and watched for months how people get put down when they decide to leave. I don't know whether you even know that you are doing it some of the time but some of the things you say seem aggressive and insulting. Maybe its just your blunt way of saying things to people and in the past I have defended that as much as I can. I'm sorry but I can't do that anymore. I can't sit back and watch people be analysed in this way any more. The leangths that you go to, the spying on other guilds, its just too much. I love you to bits Demon, you're a great guy but this has all gone too far - you never seem to grasp the idea that it's just a game and that people move on.

I don't mean this to sound as if i'm having a go at you but no-one seems to defend any of the people that leave this place and as a friend who has tried to support you I'd advise you just to let it go. Over the last month or two i've come to realise that life does not revolve around the gaming world and that people should take a more relaxed attitude to it. Yes people have worked hard and put in a lot of time to make DT what it is, but it is inevitable that it will have its fluctuations in members so why not just go with the flow, if someone leaves ok, thats their choice, let them do what they want, dont make it personal, dont get so defensive about everthing. Just enjoy the company of the people that are still with you.

[Demonjay]

yeah you know its just me i might come out a bit harsh

but i just found that on the UK forum and i thought wel that was not the reason why he left it was like we neverhelped him and such and now he says wel there is nothing left there
it just doesnt add up
so i post it here maybe getting a responce, in why he would say that

Demon why is it that when every time somebody leaves the Kinship/Clan you drag it out as if its the end of the world

wel do i i dont see it that way but what i do see is that people leave and have to lie about certain stuff or even beat around the bush about the reason why
and i cant stand that people dont need to lie and need to come out straight
and i cant help it to react on that

I'm sorry but i've sat back and watched for months how people get put down when they decide to leave. I don't know whether you even know that you are doing it some of the time but some of the things you say seem aggressive and insulting.

for months now ? ok wel ive been like this for years its just me and i wont change.
and its not because they leave but the way they leave and what they say period
yeah i know im a bit aggresive i do know that in real life im also like that but insulting no sry i dont think so if people cant ahndle the trust and rather hear some bullshit story pls dont step to me
i cant act like i like you if i dont and i cant smile and laugh whn i rather wanna choke the living crap out of you

I can't sit back and watch people be analysed in this way any more. The leangths that you go to, the spying on other guilds, its just too much

if you cant watch it then look teh other way lil or leave plain and simple
and i dont see it as spying i just go from forum to forum see whats up with the community check up on friedns,have a chat and maybe get some good new ideas on how to improve our own
thats what you got to do as leader try to improve your own clan in growing and making it better
also a good way to promote your own clan in a way to be on othr forums and mingle

I love you to bits Demon, you're a great guy but this has all gone too far - you never seem to grasp the idea that it's just a game and that people move on.

ty lil love you to, and i dont see how it has gone to far ? i just give my piece of mind thats all , so i cant say anything?
and i dont grasp the idea that its just a gae wel that is a long discusion i dont want to talk about now because my kids wanna go outside
BUT i just wanna achieve the most out of a game and hate slacking while i know we can do beter and people come and go trust me i know after 4 years running a clan

I don't mean this to sound as if i'm having a go at you but no-one seems to defend any of the people that leave this place and as a friend who has tried to support you I'd advise you just to let it go

wel lil this is the second time ( warhammer remember)
if there is something on your mind pls let me know
because i dont know any better or you are having a bad day again
an i do support my friends if they deside to leave ofc i wil but damnit we coe back to that point again that they dont have to lie or act all childish about it
no need to lie or beat around te bush

Over the last month or two i've come to realise that life does not revolve around the gaming world and that people should take a more relaxed attitude to it. Yes people have worked hard and put in a lot of time to make DT what it is

again i know its just virtual reality but
what can i say yess loads of people have worked hard to make it a great clan!!
and thats why we are so relaxed in what we do because we are on of the best of there

and about making it personal wel ive been clear what i said in this post
only when i do make it personal if people attack our fine clan or my friends
then they get to deal with me
i take no sh*t from no one and i expect my friends and clan members get treated with respect for teh achievments an good manners and helpfullness ( i hope ) they give to others in game

[Lilandrael]

I'm sorry demon I know I was probably a bit too harsh in my last post and I didn't mean it to sound like a personal attack on you, its just something that's kind of been gnawing at the back of my mind for a while.

I'm not having a bad day believe it or not. I guess I just wanted to get it all out and didn't really go about the best way of doing it. I should have talked to you in private about it but I still think that maybe you should cool down a bit before tackling the subject of people leaving.

[Demonjay]

lil i do get what you mean really i do but its not like that i do not take it personaly and i never intend to attack people because they just leave its just the way they leave and the bullshit strories they bring

i must say i do speak out a lot and need to just keep smiling gnaw my teeth and stfu at times
to react on every thing is sometimes very childish and i must keep my self in order ( cant you give me a few whip lashes to tone me down ;D ) but its like a itch i need to scratch if you get what i mean
sry i will work on it and i know i come over like a A*sh*le sometimes...

[Lilandrael]

No worries demon i'm a bit of a biatch at times too and can get carried away with myself. I'm glad you've taken this in the way I intended, didnt want to come across as telling you how to do things.